Going good. My only problem with it is all the gas I'm spending to get up there. I'd be saving loads of money if I either, had a motorcycle or got the job down here instead of commuting 100 miles a day. I literally live right down the street from the other store.
Other than that, it's a good job. Working long hours that go by very quickly when you're out driving.
Did I ever even explain what happened between Stacey and I? I thought I did?....
Well, I found out around late May that she was, in fact, dating the guy. She told me she barely met him after we had broken up. But I've caught her in countless lies, so I'm sure she knew him longer than that. The kid graduated from the same school one year after she did. According to Chris, who is dating Stacey's best friend, they've been officially in an actual relationship for 3 months. There are dozens of reasons why I'm glad we're no longer together, now. But for that reason, alone, I'm glad we're not together. For the life of me, I will never understand how a girl can throw away all those years of happiness for a chance encounter with some random kid.
I am completely over Stacey, which is really weird to say, because it was not even 4 months ago that I was in "Rock Bottom". My perspective on relationships changed after my first relationship where I was cheated on throughout it. Now, I almost don't have a perspective. I want absolutely nothing to do with a relationship. You give someone your life for 3 years and you get nothing out of it. (Hell, literally 90% of the things she owns were from me). I'm just glad I kept hanging in there. I knew if I did, I would emerge a better person with more knowledge and experience.
Thanks, MIB. My cat had kittens a little over two years ago. Stacey took one, and he's been a part of my life ever since. When we broke up, I never got to see him, and I really missed that cat. She gave me a text a week or two ago and told me that her new apartment found out she had a cat, and that she would be evicted if he wasn't gone. She was going to give him to her mother, but she told me that if she wanted anyone to take care of him and give him the love he deserved, she wanted it to be me. So she came by, crying her eyes out, dropped him off and left.
It's interesting. It feels like I just obtained custody for my son??
I am way better off, now, without a doubt. I just wish it didn't take a painful, painful break up to see it.
She is still friends with my mom on facebook. My mom showed me a post she put on her wall that said she has regrets about losing touch with people close to her in life. She's still with the guy, and according to my mom, is happy he's there. But what she said makes you wonder, doesn't it? That was just after she went to my mom and paid her for the insurance, too (she's still on a 6 month phone and insurance plan that lasts until December).
Also, if she did try to work her way back into my life, there is no way possible I would accept.
Oh, yes. Everyone has known for months. Once things became really bad between us is when I pretty much had to tell everyone that it was over. They were getting really suspicious, and I was coming to terms with the fact that she wanted nothing to do with me.